The following suggestions are being offered by experts to those concerned. First, take note that child bearing is significantly affected by age, especially of the female. Twenty five percent for example, of those who are already in their thirties are most likely to have difficulty in child-bearing compared to one percent among teenagers. Therefore, it is more advisable for women to get married significantly below thirty years of age. While there is no significant evidence that children’s health condition is adversely affected by young age among fathers, a recent study on autism found some remarkable observation that most of autistic children had for their father, men aging more than forty. Second, it is helpful to acquire more information about infertility as much as possible. Uncertainty regarding its cause usually leads to general anxiety. Third, do not disregard physical needs. Take time to exercise and strive to maintain a healthy habit. Fourth, stay active and dynamic. Take a positive outlook. Psychological wellness can also be a very potent reinforcement to any medication. Lastly, accept the emotional components of the situation. Intense emotions should be anticipated in the onset. Healthy way of externalizing them will help in the process of acceptance though will necessarily demand understanding and patience from the part of the individual, and respect from other people. If neglected, relational problems may ensue and this definitely can make more harm than good.

Above all, it is most important to accept whatever possibility. It would be more helpful if it is clear to the couple that only God can give us what we really want, and what is best for us. Whatever be the case, couple should learn to cope in a better way. In the first place, the value of everyone’s existence is in itself a wonderful gift. There could be so much meaning in life aside form having biological children. The value of human life is paramount as it is a gift no ordinary man can give.