MIND THE MUSIC

Why do you use it?

The two strongest senses are your sense of sight and sense of hearing. So, automatically, if you’re looking for a subject to talk about, you can just say, “Hey, the music’s pretty good!” You have to appeal the senses.

When do you use it?

A good time to use it is when the music is good. You can also save it for when the bar’s playlist is particularly bad. Tell the girl, “Oh, the music here is so bad, why don’t we get out of here and find some place to chill out?” Isn’t it an easier way to make a move?

MAKE UP A MEMORY

Why do you use it?

It elicits a reaction, because it’s a question. When you ask a girl if you’ve met before, she’ll immediately think when and where. You’re already setting the tone of the conversation through mind stimulation.

When do you use it?

It depends on the type of girl. You can even confess later on, “I’ve never really met you, but I found you to be really hot, and I didn’t know how to get your name. So I just had to tell you that we met before.” Some might even find it sweet.

PLAY THE NAME GAME

Why do you use it?

You ask her name, so it’s straightforward way to get to know her. Then, you use her name in conversation to commit it to memory.

When do you use it?

You can actually use this anywhere. In a club, I guess you have to establish eye contact first.

COMPLIMENTARY COME-ON

Why do you use it?

Everyone wants to hear something good about themselves, right? You can always say, “You have beautiful eyes,” but you also have to get to know the girl. You can’t act like you just want to get in her pants. Be comfortable, then that’s when you throw in the compliment.

When do you use it?

It works best in a club, obviously because of the alcohol involved. The inhibitions are lowered, and the girls aren’t too scared.

BUY HER BOOZE

Why do you use it?

It’s the best ice-breaker sometimes, without having to say anything at all. Everyone loves to get a free drink. Plus, you can’t just get a drink for the girl you’re interested in, her girlfriends get a round as well.

When do you use it?

You can use this when you want to get the attention of a woman. Or, when a woman is having trouble getting a round of drinks. So you tell the waiter or bartender to charge it to you. It works well when the bar is super packed and you know the waiters or bartender.

BUMP AND GRIND

Why do you use it?

You use this when you’re really in the mood to dance. It’s a good gauge to see if she’s interested in you. Guys should usually see if she’ll stay and dance while you’re near her first, then you dance right behind her or infront of her. If she moves away or stops dancing, you should back off. Body language speaks louder than words.

When do you use it?

You can usually dance behind the girl if the girl makes eye contact. If she’s interested throughout the night, you do you’re thing and show her your signature dance move!