As such any broken relationship is difficult to deal with. Our life becomes affected profoundly. Sometimes you will be surprised when you realize how integral the relationship was to your life. Dealing with it is tough. But believe that you will get over it for sure and keep an optimistic outlook. There are some tips that help you in such situations. It helped me. So take a deep breath and feel the change.

1)  Stop trying to mend the relationship:

 I know that by now you would have tried every trick in your kitty to get back with your friend. Even after lots of trying the person is not willing to come your way. It’s high time you realized it’s all over. Accepting that it has ended gives you some relief in a way. It’s for your own good.anyways why do you want to be with someone who doesn’t want you to be a part of his/her life anymore

2) Think positive:

It’s not the end of the world. It’s true that you have become so dependant on you friend for everything, but you will definitely survive. Learn from the mistakes. Who knows, a better person is just around the corner. You just have to take a step forward

3) Do not blame yourself for everything:

It’s common to wallow in self pity and blame you for the relationship gone sore. You are not the only one who has made mistakes you are human being and we all make mistakes. Only when you clap with both hands do we make a noise. Both people involved are equally responsible in a relationship. So forgive yourself.

4) Move on:

Make new friends. Try out new activities; cultivate that hobby you forgot you had. You need a change from the usual pattern of gloomy thoughts. Going out and doing new things can definitely lift your spirits. So welcome change with both hands. Sport a new hairstyle, buy new clothes, savour a new dish, experiment with cooking etc. can help you a lot.

5) Write your worries on the sand:

 Sometimes speaking about it is not always possible. Because the person you are used to turning to for support is no longer available. If possible speak about it your family .If this is not possible then next best thing to do is to write about it. Pour all your anger and sadness on the paper. Later make sure to shred the paper because you don’t want anyone to read it and faint.

Hope this has helped you in some way. Always believe everything happens for the good.

~ Happy Living

Check out Part 1 of Broken Friendship :-

http://authspot.com/thoughts/broken-friendship-part-one-what-really-happens/