Privacy and discretion are meant to be respected. So why is it that peoples privacy are anything but private? Ladies and gentlemen if you hear your significant others’ phone ring or indicate a message was received, do the wise thing and leave it to the eyes they were meant for. If you don’t trust them from a past deception or you’re just nosey then being by yourself is the best medicine. Trusting someone and manipulating someone by saying “If you trust me why won’t you give me your password?” is a straight up blue print to disaster. You let them into your world, the little privacy you do have, all of a sudden you’re in the hot seat and expected to answer questions about what someone sent you. Rule of thumb, a lesson I’ve just learned-NEVER leave your phone around an ex on pursuit; Found myself being asked about what was sent to me. I’m not one to read folks personal business but why go througsah an exes? HELLO!!!! WE’RE NOT TOGETHER!!! Believe it or not people are free to leave their possessions out in their own home but that doesn’t justify prying eyes to view what’s in the open. The phrase “If you don’t want it read don’t leave it out” comes to mind but to those nosebuds I say MIND YOUR FUCKING  BUSINESS. When and if it’s meant for you to know what someone keeps dear then maybe just maybe you’ll be brought to light. Is invading a loved ones privacy more important than granting each other separate space? That’s not love-that’s pshycho. Wanna lose what little civility you have left with that loved one? Put your nose where it doesn’t belong….Wish Granted.