Confidence is a feeling that you think you are capable of doing something. It maybe make you optimistic and pleasing. It maybe a plus for you to enjoy doing thing and enjoy life. But confidence is not the feeling that you think you are better than others. That is crazy not confidence.

I like to discuss confidence from this angle how the confidence influences success. As you know, there are a lot of important factor in your success. Some factor is out of your control even you don’t realize the critical factor. But you must know confidence is always crucial for your success. So so many people like himself being more confident, most parents manage efforts to make their children more confident. But, as a matter of fact, most of people is not confident enough. An other words, efforts of most people don’t make sense.

  Why? Maybe most of people have a wrong conception about confidence. What is confidence? Most people will answer confidence is you are better than others or anyone, confidence is that you are the best one. As I mentioned before this is crazy not confidence. Do you know why there are so many people being unconfident and so many people think they are not as good as others? Because that so many people thought they are better than others before.

If you think you are better than others, you will must come to the conclusion that you should be more successful than others, you should be most successful. This is a problem. As you know, confidence is not the way of success, confidence doesn’t mean success, it doesn’t equal success. You mustn’t be more successful than others, you mustn’t be most successful. So you will go to the contrary of confidence.

 These days, a lot of success is selected due to your outstanding ability. IQ is an important part of your ability. You inherit most of IQ from your father, your father inherit it from your grandfather. Therefore, your confidence can’t change it. For some success that is primary depended on IQ, more you think you are better than others, more you will be frustrated. It is reasonable that you go to the contrary of confidence.

What is the confidence? What is the right confidence? Useful confidence?

Confidence is a feeling that you think you will do better after your efforts, a feeling that you can know more after your time, a feeling that you come from