Real meaning of LOVE.
CARING
Love means Caring, when u love someone u want to give her/ him all the care he / she needs.Many patients are healed not only by medicine, but also bye TLC (tender,loving care)
In love someone has to take the first move. without setting any conditions, a loving person cares. Thus ” we love because GOD first loved us” (1 John 4:19). This is the only way to reach out to the uncaring as well as to the careless and teach them to care. Sooner or later this lesson of caring will be caught; the person being cared learns to care.
Caring does not mean condoning the loved one’s bad behavior. Yet caring a person must be firm, “speaking the truth of love” (Ephesians 4:15). Jesus uttered scathing rebukes, but there were tears in His voice.
RESPECT
Love means showing respect. Because GOD made each person unique and in His divine image, He highly esteems everybody. He does not compare one with another. Everyone is a VIP to him. A persons value is far above rubies.
God respects each persons individuality-his power to think and to do.God subscribes to the person’s choice even if it is againts his will. Such love must be seen between sweethearts, spouses, siblings and friends, Each one values the dignity, honor, rights, privileges, thoughts and values of the other.
ACCEPTANCE
Love means accepting the person as he/ she is. To accept his strengths and weaknesses, potentials and shortcomings, his past and his future. If you accept him for what he should be (based on your image of an ideal person), you reject him out rightly. That means he must cope with your expectations and meet the standard you have set for him. Only then you cna love him.
We have to mutually accepts our differences. Acceptance also implies having warm, nonthreatening atmosphere at home. there is freedom and permissiveness in spite of rules and regulations.The climate of relationships is conductive for one’s growth ad self actualization.
FORGIVENESS
Love means forgiving.Such love is a reflections of God’s character. God declares ” I , even, I am He that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins”. ( Isaiah 43:25) That us what means to love and forgive a person.
TRUST Love means showing Trust. To some people, the most difficult test if love is the restoration of the lost trust in the person who has found ” untrustworthy”. How can you love a person who has betrayed your confidence?How can you count on his word again when he has broken his promises several times? “Love never gives up;and its faith, hope and patience never fail”.(1 Corinthians 13:7)
Trust, as one aspect of love, is a capital that one can invest in a person he is related to.Without trust the other person ceases to be a loved one. He become the object of suspicion and contempt. Doubt brings anxiety, fear ad uncertainty, also breeds insecurity and restlessness.Self-confidence is undetermined.A person who has no trust in another becomes more sensitive and easily gets threatened. thus he nags,demands and suspects and accuses the other person.
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