Dating Sites (Don’t Go Too Fast) From the book: Relationships (Around the world)…

Don’t go too fast. You know people, especially men, like to embellish themselves on the Internet. Here are some questions to ask him. . Has he ever been married? If “no”, forget it. You don’t need to be breaking in a newbie at your age. If he has been married, Is he married now? If he’s not married, why? Has he been divorced, why? or What happened? Besides a beautiful woman, what does he expect from her? What does he think kind and gentle mean? In other words, does he expect a ‘yes sir’ type relationship. How old is he? Who has the final say about things? If he says, a woman, ask him why. If he says, “me”, ask him why? Ask him outside of his business, who should handle the money? I know, you think I’m being suspicious, and you are right, I am. You don’t have to ask him all the questions at once. But you also don’t need to “fall” too quickly either.

We both know especially men have a tendency to change once they are ‘attached’ to a woman. Those words “strong and romantic lady” got me too. Just exactly what does he thinks “romantic” is, to a woman. Always remember, it’s the woman’s choice about sex, not the man’s. Once you ‘give in to him’, every time he mentions it, forget it. If he doesn’t live near you, would he be willing to meet you somewhere public? You could also take your daughter and husband with you. Don’t go anywhere alone with him for awhile. Having someone with you, will be an objective view of him, which women themselves cannot see.

Affairs of the heart, often blind women to the truth. Also find out if he would be willing to bring you to see a friend? (me, who else). Remember you have a love for music and writing, would he be able to put up with your career too? Not just his? Just some food for thought, as beautiful as you are on the outside, you glow from your heart. I love you and don’t want you to get hurt, I do want you to be happy. I don’t want him or anyone else to tear us apart either. VG

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The Book: Relationships/(Around the world), used by permission Lora Kay Alexander