In this world, you can never control the people and the personalities you’ll meet. And it is a fact that if not all understands you, some of those who disguise themselves as your friends are those who hates you the most.

  It’s a very sad fact but sometimes we just have to accept this cold reality especially when you are the type who is always misinterpreted and judged negatively. People have this attitude which is just innate in them, or due to their past experiences which cannot be understood by people unless they will know this person better.However, you do not have all the time in the world to enumerate all your experiences and why you are like that.

  What really hurts is that when the people whom you thought understood you are the ones who hide their grudge against you because they can’t stand you. You can’t change for them, and you don’t have to change for them. They are not worth the effort. If they hate you, let them. They just comprise a part of the population of the people who knows you. Why not focus on the rest of the population, the population who loves and accepts you as you are. It doesn’t really matter if the percent of the people who hates you is more dominant than the percent of those who like you. The important thing is that, THERE IS AN EXISTING POPULATION OF PEOPLE WHO LIKES YOU-NO MATTER HOW SMALL THEIR NUMBER IS.

  And about the criticisms? They may hurt-A LOT! But the fact is, you’re still alive. There’s still many things worth living for. And things like these are just a challenge from GOD. If you think it’s getting heavy, bear in mind that GOD only gives you problems you can solve and handle.

  And you don’t have to change-you just have to adjust and limit your actions. Go with what makes you happy. If your happiness is the issue, then it’s about time you decide for yourself disregarding people’s efforts in bringing you down. Prove to these haters that you can go on and trying to destroy you won’t ever hinder your happiness.