In the message, she chides her stepson’s fiancée Freddie for his alleged lack of social skills.

Carolyn Bourne, a flower grower 60 years old Devon, southern England, he sent detailed instructions on label Heidi Withers, 29.

This apparently offended, as soon received the message sent it to some friends, those who reported the net.

The message of Mrs. Bourne includes several examples of “bad manners” Withers, who works as a secretary in London, the capital:

When one is invited to a strange house, does not state what will or will not eat, unless it is positively allergic to anything.

You do not say that the food is not enough.

One does not begin before the others.

One does not use more if the host was not invited.

When you’re a guest in someone else’s house, do not stay in bed until late morning in households that get up early. One follows the house rules.

One should never insult the family that is about to join, let alone in public. I understand that you spoke of this like a joke, but the reaction was shock bar, no laughter.

Regularly you call attention to itself. Maybe I should ask why.

No one gets married in a castle unless the owner. It’s scandalous behavior, as if it were a celebrity.

I understand that their parents can not contribute significantly to the cost of your wedding. (There is nothing wrong with that, unless the agreement indicates that one could assume that they have saved in recent years, the marriages of their daughters). If this is the case, would be more appropriate for an elegant lady lower their expectations and have a modest wedding, as befits the income of you.

At one could accuse her of thinking that Heidi Withers should be patting on the back for having won a coveted young. I sympathize with Freddie “
According to the message circulating on the Internet, Mrs. Bourne concludes “one could accuse her of thinking that Heidi Withers should be patting on the back for having won a coveted young. I feel sorry for Freddie.”

The radio program Newsbeat The BBC said on its website, a spokeswoman Heidi Withers said he could not offer comments and that Mrs. Bourne and her husband have refused to give interviews.

Some surfers say that the author of the message is “a mother in hell.” Others say that if it is true what you write, also feel sorry for Freddie. Will it end all be a family joke