Man’s existence is by nature vulnerable.Love attachment be it familial or romantic by nature is vulnerable. When one looses a loved   one, many time depression sets in. The entity of love is a mode. Not being able to transfer from modes of existence can cause depression. All attachments be it familial or romantic can can suffering. Loving one’s family , a spouse or a girlfriend or a boyfriend can cause much suffering when one looses this love. Loss of love can cause a sence of rejection that can be very painful. However, if one has a good self esteem, all the rejection in the world will not hurt that individual. One has to come to an understanding of life that love is very difficult phenomenon and that its loss is inherent in its very existence . Neuropsychological conditions of man such as depression comes about from immaturity and lack of understanding of oneself and the nature of human phenomenon such as love. Strong people are physically immuned to the  seduction of the world. Oedipus and electra  which  were discovered by Freud are by nature seductive. Loss of oedipal relations can cause depression, and the loss of the electra complex can cause much suffering. Women during the process of life,have to let go of oedipus and electra while men have to let go of their oedipus complex. Growing up and letting go of all the complexes can be very complicated and painful, and many times depression sets in. I believe that  modern day psychotherapy is incomplete. Connection to a higher power has to be established and meditation should be practiced.  In the case of emotional suffering, one  has  to  transcend  ones human boundaries, and connect with a higher power. Drinking,drugs and antidepressants mask the suffering. Antidepressants affect the inside of the neurotransmitters and do not affect the availability of amino acids which are the building blocks of neurotransmitters. Much of modern society is a mask. When   one  deals  with   the  actual  reality, one  faces  the  reality  of  the  situation  and  hence  comes the cure. Facing the reality or becoming conscious brings about good health. Tragedy and vulnerability is inherent in the nature of all kinds of attachment. The only attachment that does not possess a vulnerabilty is connection to a higher power we call God. Mental health   truly comes about when one is connected to higher power we know as God. Beware and become conscious of the vulnerabilities of human existence and become conscious of the forces which take place in your life and you will live a better and fullfilled life.