Friendship

You need to maintain your friends, nourish them, and strive for intimacy, instead of sending a card, call each of your friends for the festival season. 

Regrets

Listen to what the older people talk about, they are wiser in thoughts,  their biggest regret in most cases, is not what they did, but what they failed to do.  They often regret not standing up for something or not expressing an affection.

Sex

The  two languages of sex which  you may not be familiar with,  the one that reflects our reproductive function, it’s explosive, being highly emotional and comes purely natural.  The other language, is something to acquire,  this involves becoming more sensitive to your partner,  showing concern with needs required.  It is a secret  to a continuous love affair.

Retirement                      

If you think about retiring at an early age you must be living in a fantasy world, it is better for you to think of  productive you will be later in life, rather than having to retire.  Try to have more than one career, keep learning and if you decide to retire do it with a sense of purpose, and living together.