#1 Becoming independent

 This gives me a laugh, now becoming independent in the real sense, in the real meaning is really something. We have all reached this stage and the question is, what did we do? Or what do we do? I mean by this time I feel I can handle almost everything that comes my way irrespective of the consequences. Putting my foot down on all matters is what I would like to do but I know that immaturity still lingers around me and thank God parents are always around the corner to give some advice or beating when getnecessary!!

#2 Getting a girlfriend or boyfriend

Tell me about it, if I have not seen it, I have longed for it myself. It is a common practice for a group of boys or girls to talk about the opposite sex, which is very okay and I do not mind participating as long as we do not get out of mind, that is get abusive or disrespectful. Yes!! The pressure mounts among friends and if you do not  know how to handle it, you might get one to ruin your sweet life in the name of pleasing your friends. Not only is it the friends that pressure, to the queue there are hormones and feelings, oh!! Name it all. Your mind starts giving you the perfect person that you should get and it can get real funny or boring (for the hard to get) depending on your target.

All in all be who you are when picking your ‘ideal one’ and if you feel it ain’t time yet, cool it off.

#3 Having sex

In respect to the above, this can go out of hand and pretty dangerous or risky if not handled in the proper way.

No matter what, I believe sex should be for married people because am a Christian and anything less makes no sense to me quite honestly. There is always that first time that one thinks about so much and we all know what curiosity did to the cat!!!

#4 Drinking/smoking

Common, common practices that undoubtedly majority of young people learn from the movies or around relatives and friends that creates this perspective if that person looking cool and anything that is looks cool is okay and besides who wouldn’t want the ‘hots’ on his side. I neither do both, so bottom line is I have never had any experience in both so I can not say much. So just take your pick but I would tell you not to, please!!!!    

#5 Becoming famous

I wanted this to be last because it is real fun to become famous. Now I do not know what you would want to make you famous but I know that it is writing that I want to make me famous. I am sure there are many avenues to this common goal and I would not want to be the one to tell to back off but let it be as long as it is within the law and acceptable to your dear ones

 joyful always