A grateful daughter speaks about the wonderful tributes of her beloved mother.

                      

  Recently, on another writing site, the subject for an article idea was:  Would you support (financially or otherwise), your aging parents, if or when the need should arise.  That was a very good subject and there were many articles then sent in by their writers.  I was so happy to read the many submissions by children, now grown, who would definitely help their parents in gratitude for what their parents did for them by just doing what good parents are supposed to do.  Regarding this question, the yea’s far outweighed the nays and I was proud to see how many wonderful people still do exist in a world where ill manners, thoughtlessness and greed run rampant.

  I will never take my surviving parent for granted, and she will not go to a nursing home unless it is a total case of have to!  My father counts strongly here as well, but we lost him early on when he was only 52 years young.  He was the epitome of what a father should be and I miss him to this very day.

  Mama is now a hearty 86 year old handful of firecrackers!  My misfortune is that she resides in another state where my sister also lives.  I do have my sister to thank, which I often do, for all she does for our mother.  I just wish it was me doing for Mama instead.  I really want her here and living with me.  However, due to a situation that is well beyond my control at my house, Mama remains where she is.  One thing I can do for her is to write this tribute because I love her so very much, and I want to put it onto the printed page so she can see how much she means to me.  She has been and remains a wonderful, nurturing, consoling mother.  She is my best friend.

  When I was young and living in the comforts of my parent’s home, everything was special and magical.  Mama always celebrated each holiday like it was the best one ever.  If there wasn’t a holiday coming up, she’d invent something to celebrate to be grateful and happy for.  We weren’t well heeled, yet we attended private schools and our needs were always met.  Once when I was nine years old I became deathly ill with a kidney infection that was of a viral nature.  Children were dying.  I was bedridden, could not go to school and had a home tutor.  Mama and Daddy frequently went to church to beg for my life.  Their prayers were answered as I am still here today, an older woman gratefully writing about her mother.

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  • ladydryle on Nov 28, 2009

    wow…i can see that you love your mother very much. I also love my mother the way you feel to yours…. I admire people who can can freely show their love to their parents…(^^,)
    I love telling my mom and dad how I love them and i keep on saying it over and over again…

  • ken bultman on Nov 28, 2009

    Beautiful tribute to a wonderful lady. Thanks, Mo, for sharing it with us. I lost my mother when I was nine but there are fragments of memory remaining.

  • Christine Ramsay on Nov 28, 2009

    A wonderful tribute to your mother. It is not always easy to do what we can for aging parents. My parents moved out to Italy when they retired and being in England and hating flying is making it very difficult for me to look after them now they are in their late eighties.

    Christine

  • mo hoyal on Nov 28, 2009

    Christine,
    I know well what goes through your mind and heart because my mother is also not living anywhere close to me, so it is something to be reckoned with and I sympathize. Thank you so much for being a constant friend, I truly appreciate you!

  • mo hoyal on Nov 28, 2009

    Dear Ken,
    I could not take the loss of my mother at the age you did and I think you have turned out splendidly in the final outcome. You are so humorous, a gentleman compassionate, a friend to many and a wonderful writer-your personality shines and we all love you! Thank you so much for coming by to read.
    Mo

  • mo hoyal on Nov 28, 2009

    Dear ladydryle,
    It was wonderful hearing from you and also to hear how much you love your parents. Keep up the good way and you will be mightily rewarded for the love you have and share.
    Kind regards and thank you so much for coming to read my article.

  • cutedrishti8 on Nov 28, 2009

    It’s great tribute..

  • Sourav on Nov 28, 2009

    Very touchy and wonderful wite. A great tribute.

  • Guy Hogan on Nov 28, 2009

    This is a lovely tribute. My father is dead but Mom is 90 living with my older sister and her husband. My sister and my brother-in-law treat her great. My sister is financially well off and I live hand to mouth so I’m thankful that Mom lives with my sister.

  • Teves on Nov 28, 2009

    Nice one… http://www.articlespost.page.tl

  • Authoress Terry E. Lyle on Nov 28, 2009

    Beautiful tribute, and I love my mom just as deeply. “What a awesome love”.

  • Frances Lawrence on Nov 28, 2009

    Such a lovely article. Like you my I lost my father when he was 52, but he had been ill for 10 years by then. My mum was a very strong role modle though my whole life and I always knew I was loved unconditionally and could depend on her absolutely. Now she is old and her body (but not her spirit) is becoming frail, I will do everything in my power to ensure that she and my step father have all the care and support I can give them.

  • mo hoyal on Nov 29, 2009

    Frances,
    We seem to run parallel to each other in a lot of ways. There has been a hollow spot in my heart for years from my father dying and I havg on to my mother now for dear life. I know you will do all in your power to ensure that your mother has all that she needs. What’s so damn sad is the decline of what we all used to be from when we were young and look what we have forward to look to-ugh! I only hope that when I become needy that my children will be there for me! Thank you so much for coming to read, I truly appreciate you!

  • Tracey Parece on Nov 29, 2009

    She is so beautiful! I am glad you shared your feelings about her and that lovely photo of her. Tracey

  • Valerie Curtiss on Nov 30, 2009

    Awesome tribute, and yes my darling,she is so beautiful, and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, you too are beautiful in person as well as in spirit!

  • athena goodlight on Dec 2, 2009

    You did a very nice tribute. It is just apt to give our parents tribute while they are still alive, and you did it wonderfully.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Dear Athena,
    I wanted to do something that my mother could see and possibly have in print so she would know how much I care-and she does.
    Thank you so much for coming to read, I truly appreciate it.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Dear Val,
    Thanks so much, I really appreciate your kind words because I know they are genuine! Love you!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Tracey,
    Thanks for coming by to read, I am so grateful. The picture showing of you here reminds me so much of my sister, I’m trying to find the one of her so I can send it to you in e-mail. Keep well!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Hi Guy-Professor!
    It was good to hear from you and I thank you so much for coming by to read. Your mom is in good hands and I have always wanted my mother to live with me but somehow it hasn’t worked out. We are grateful though, that she is still able to live independently, as she desires.
    Kind regards!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Authoress Terry,
    I know how you feel, it is an awesome love, and then come the grandchildren and you thought you knew about love! Take care, keep well and thank you so much for coming by to read and visit with me in my world.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Teves…..rock on guitar man! Thanks!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Sourav,
    Thank you so much for coming by to read, I appreciate it very much!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 2, 2009

    Cear Cute,
    Thank you so much for coming by to read, I appreciate it!

  • lillyrose on Dec 3, 2009

    She is very beautiful and I am sure she knows how much you love her! Lovely tribute Mo, I hope my daughter feels that way about me xxx

  • mo hoyal on Dec 3, 2009

    Hi Lillirose,
    I hope we do experience the same from both our daughters someday. I know my daughter does feel about me as I feel about my mum. I’m sure from what I’ve gathered about you, that you are well loved, my dear. And, you are well loved by us all here at Triond too!

    Best regards.

  • jimbob1 on Dec 4, 2009

    MH – What a lovely, glowing personal tribute and testimony of love and devotion that a most grateful and appreciative daughter can give to her mother. This is indeed a daughter to mother masterpiece. From what I have read of you, I think it would be pretty easy to say “Like mother, like daughter…” Love your description “handful of firecrackers”!!! Your mother must be so proud of you and rightfully so. Thank you for acknowledging your mother as such a beautiful, special friend and not only conveying that message on Mother’s Day, but every day of the year…good on you.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 6, 2009

    Dear Jimbob,
    Thank you so much for stopping by to read, it is very much appreciated. Your words are so eloquent and you sound very much like a true gentleman, thank you!

  • albert1jemi on Dec 8, 2009

    That was really really a beautiful tribute to mom. yes she is really beautiful and i also support that everyone should take care of their old parents and never forget what they have done to us.

  • mkd1788 on Dec 9, 2009

    wonderful post…nicely expressed…good work…

  • mo hoyal on Dec 9, 2009

    Thanks so much for coming by to read Albert, I truly appreciate it. We’re having a bit of a time with mom now with her hearing so we need a prayer so we can work this out-hearing devices are so expensive. God Bless.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 9, 2009

    mkd,
    Thanks so much for coming by to read, I truly appreciate it. Yes, our parents need us now and it is a shame that many are not wanted in their children’s homes.
    Welcome to Triond and to my writings!

  • Brenda Nelson on Dec 9, 2009

    I guess it depends on how well a persons parent did at parenting. My mom beat us and has never acknowledged this although my sister and I recall it and talk about it often, we confronted her once and she insists it wasnt as bad as we remember it…
    So, in short, I dont know what I will do when the time comes.

    Love your new picture by the way!

  • LOVELYHONEY on Dec 10, 2009

    ………give her a kiss like this

    as triond sleeps will u like to misss just a poem on kiss
    Just A KIISSY POEM YJATS ALL
    If you get kisses
    As often as your wishes
    The lips will draw blood
    Yet remain secure
    Happy as well as pure

    But it’s just too sad
    Lips are so mad
    That they want another lip
    Yet so many do slip

    Kiss me tenderly I pray
    Lips do say
    Then I shall repay
    All the love you need
    For heavens sake
    Says the twitching lip
    Please kiss me quick

  • xoxo on Dec 11, 2009

    She’s very beautiful and she should be proud of this wonderful piece of yours. I too, wouldn’t want my parents in some ‘old homes’. Its really nasty as if you are going to give away some animal. Anyway, I only have one parent- a dad. My mom just passed away last January and this post of yours reminded me of her. You are so lucky you still have a mom. God bless you.

    Mae

  • Leonardo da Vinci E. on Dec 17, 2009

    That was a precious picture. Thank you for sharing it. Your envisionment of Motherhood will have different results from person to person.

  • mo hoyal on Dec 22, 2009

    B,
    That’s so hard to overcome when you and your sister both agree on what happened growing up and I can see where it would be hard to feel close to a person, but I send you the spirit of love and kindness and you just go from where you are because you\’ve turned out to be a wonderful person! Thanks so much for coming by to read.

    Mo

  • mo hoyal on Dec 22, 2009

    LH,
    Thank you for the beautiful poem and for coming by to read!

  • mo hoyal on Dec 22, 2009

    MMV,
    Thank you so much for coming by to read. When we have good parents it is a terrible loss to say goodbye to them. Best regards from me!

    Mo

  • mo hoyal on Dec 22, 2009

    Leonardo,

    You remain eloquent and I thank you for coming by to read. I also want to wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

    Mo

  • Lord Banks on Dec 23, 2009

    A very nice tribute to your mother, I lost my father 15 years ago but it still hurts. wonderful read.

  • tonywriter on Dec 29, 2009

    very beautiful and nice read mam,Thanks!

  • Themax on Jan 6, 2010

    awesome write mo, just awesome and great holy tribute,Thanks for sharing :)

  • mo hoyal on Jan 7, 2010

    Lord Banks,
    Thank you so much for coming to read my article, I truly appreciate it! When a family is a wonderfully happy and loving one, it is the worst thing when we lose one of our beloved ones. I too, lost my father early on and the wound is just as fresh today as it was a long time ago.
    Best regards and God Bless you!

  • mo hoyal on Jan 7, 2010

    Thank you so much tonywriter! I appreciate your coming by to read and have made resolution to get more reading of what my triond friends write this new year.
    Best regards!

  • mo hoyal on Jan 7, 2010

    Themax,
    You are so wonderfully sweet, thank you so much for coming by to read. I also promise more reading of friends articles this year since Triond was so very new to me last year. God bless!

  • JLJohnson on Jan 22, 2010

    Moyis, I so love these legacies you are leaving for us….some I am reading for the first time and I am looking forward to discovering more of my wonderful, loving, nurturing mothers’ life! Keep the “Chronicles of Mo” coming. I love it & will share it with your grand squirrels! Wuvs….Jo Bird

  • mo hoyal on Jan 28, 2010

    Jo Bird,
    What happiness this brings to know that my beautiful daughter is coming to read what her mother is writing. This is the only legacy I can leave behind me, but it is pure love for you and your babies! I love you!

    Mom

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