If a person knows how to be aware of his problem why happiness and/or success is so far away for him, and that same person knows what to do in order to overcome the obstacles that prevent him from gaining both, most probably, the entire process of change will provide contentment. But it is not the kind of satisfaction which causes laziness. Everyday will be a day of striving to do whatever must be done in order to reach the goal. The logical mind will certainly accept the idea of getting things done one day at a time. It is like building a stronghold. The solid foundation should be prepared. A calculated plan has to be followed. Every part of the construction requires compliance with desirable standards. The builder cannot rush the drying of cement, the careful measurements, and whatever skilled workers can do within a reasonable time. Besides, all these have been foreseen or anticipated based on previous experiences by other people who have been through the same project.

Come to think of it, knowledge also allows its owner to be flexible when it comes to behaving and maintaining the joy deep within. He knows all his patience and effort will end up in good results. It is just a matter of time. Why worry about something that you know to be in progress and in good hands ? If you trust yourself, believe in what you can achieve, and you have what it takes to reach a goal in life, all will be well. You might as well whistle a happen tune. share your happiness with others so that your surroundings will feel confident whenever you are around. Does anybody worry about the Sun rising from the East and setting on the West ? Ancient people had worshipped the Sun. Even to this very day, many look at the sunset with awe and wonder. Painters and photographers get inspired by that great creation. But I have not heard of anyone worrying about the established pattern of the universe.

Oftentimes, people create the thoughts they worry about. The habit of finding good ideas or heart warming memories and the habit of speaking only whatever will be good to speak about — these are developed by training and practice. It is not easy to learn self-control in thoughts, in words, and in deeds. We call those who have reached such level of discipline a privileged character. His enlightenment becomes a source of hope for many. Do you remember Bob Hope, the American Comedian ? His name always reminds those who know him that life can be filled with jokes and laughter.