First you need to calm down for real. Yes it is your special day, but you don’t have to rave and scream at everyone that is crying to help you out. Without your family and friends there would not be a wedding. Second don’t treat your husband like crap, what is up with that? You are getting married to him not getting a divorce. Third pick your people wisely especially when you know darn well you don’t get along with them. Fourth please just try and keep your cool when people have other things that they have to do basically always have a back up bridesmaid or something just in case yours gets sick or something. Fifth for all of man kind please stop showing up to your mans bachelor party. Sixth have fun it is your day and your man’s day, don’t cry and have a temper just because you can’t get what you want.