How do I make myself think only good and positive about others?

The easiest and the most definite way to be positive about others is to build this into your though process, “I am grateful to them because…” since gratitude and disturbances cannot coexist, by just starting the thought process “I am grateful to them because…” you have already neutralized the negative possibilities. It is possible to be good even to those who have been bad to you by thinking in this direction even about them, ‘I am grateful to them because…” Anything that’s born from the womb of gratitude can only be positive.

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The icon in the desktop of a computer isn’t the software, but the gateway to be software. Similarly, all of us have mental icons for every relationship. Some incident, some dominant memory, some picture, some hurt, some happy moment, some loving experience… something from that relationship becomes the mental icon for that relationship. Without that mental icon being right, we cannot think and feel right about that relationship. So examine, what are your mental icons for each of your key relationships and get that right. When the mental icons are right, you first thoughts and first feel of that relationship becomes right. And what’ well begun is half done.