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I have learned in today’s society chivalry is dead.  Friendship isn’t always faithful and family can be very trying.

If you are severely screwed by a family member , should you get over it, or does it depend on who the family member is?  Is there a stipulation  on a parent as apposed to a second cousin.  Do you seek revenge?  or do we simply just give it a few years then makeup at grandmas wake?  I mean is forgiveness the answer, when your taken advantage of every time you choose to forgive?

  It seems today that those who are pure and have an open heart get taken advantage off because they believe that all should be forgiven, and those who take advantage lack that chip in there brain.  When is enough is enough.  People work so hard to make friends, but in an instant can turn into enemies, so whats the point of making friends in the first place?  Just so someone can collect personal info on you to use it a later date when an opportunity arises.

Now I know we have all met or dated or worked for a vile individual that wrongs you in such a way that you spend your nights thinking up schemes to destroy there perfect little world.  As they walk around and make other wish for a slow painful dealth rather than have to spend another minute, listening to the absolute obsurdness there spewing at everyone who they think want to listen.  Let me ask you would you rather be loved and humble or hated with power?

    So how about karma in all this, does karma really bite back , and if so when.  Who determines who gets the good karma and bad and is there a number of good or bad things you must do before it strikes?  Because I know there are many people out there that have been good all there life yet luck always seems to pass them by why?  Why are they not good enough,  do they not deserve it ?

  Alot to think about, but innevitably the only thing really tothink about is what kind of person are you? How do people see you and how do you want to be seen?  no matter what happens the only person who can make a difference in your life is you.  So How do you want to be rememberd?