Being a woman, the life is always hectic playing the multitasker role. Its very important for her to look beautiful and confident. Its not that easy to maintain that balance unless we keeep in mind some important points..

    Swirling over the multi tasker role, the life of a woman becomes life hectic & the time she hits the bed, she is all  exhausted! Its beyond doubt that it is an inherent quality of woman to play the role  of a  mother , daughter, a professional , a daughter in law , a friend a loving partner or so on. While switching over such roles she unknowingly toils  in her life. It is very important to maintain the balance in her life. She wants to look beautiful be confident  cause it makes her happy and give her strength to play her role in a balanced way.

Is that possible to achieve by simply dressing up in a better way? How important it is to maintain the inner beauty?   The actual truth is its important to maintain the synergy between these both. The outer beauty may look unattractive in absence of inner glow.

Well here are few tips to maintain balance in  ………

 For the Outer look

  • Always wear something that suits the situation, occasion, season, purpose and importantly you.
  •  Wear your outfit with confidence as in lack of that even the most expensive and beautiful outfit will appear flawed on you.
  • The way you dress up sends a signal to the people around you and it reflects your personality. So be careful while selecting an outfit yourself.

Its pretty easy to look beautiful outside by dressing up beautiful but its equally tough to maintain the inner self. It needs lots of effort to get the  inner beauty and it can sure be achieved by providing mental food to the soul…

·          Try to be an early riser and watch outside. Enjoy the quietness, the songs of bird, the sun rise and you are gonna be happy .

·         Atleast try to take out 5 mins from your busy schedule to sit in a quiet place and breath in and out slowly. Count up to 5 times and repeat till you  simply hear your breathing only!

·         No time to join aerobics? Don’t worry! Get yourself CD with some fast number on it. Play it and dance like a rock star.  Get sweaty,shred off the extra calories and you get all freshness.

·         Your tied up schedules never permit you to sit quietly even for 5 mins?  Never mind! dance under shower water when u take a shower..  you will notice a change in  your spirit ….

·         Its most likely to get upset, depression at times  in our life no matter  how much we try no to. It affects the inner spirit too. Best way is to maintain a journal where you can write anything that you feel being sad, happy or even the very secret  you cannot share! I myself have used this trick to keep my spirit up even when my near and dear ones gifted me unbearable amount of hurts! Journal is  one of the best ways to take out your negative emotion. So start from today..

·         Every morning when you wake up stand before a mirror and greet yourself with a smile. & say

“I am beautiful, confident and  I have enough strength to overcome any hurdle. Today is going to be the best day of my life” It will boost up your spirit. Practice it and feel great all day through.

 A morning started with a boost to the spirit and a properly worn outfit will help you to look not only beautiful but also confident.



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  • drAnn on Sep 25, 2010

    Truly no amount of external beauty is of any value if one is not beautiful and content from the inside out. Dancing in the shower is such a nice metaphor, but be careful not to slip and fall!

  • cherryflower70 on Sep 26, 2010

    Thanks Ann for the comment.

  • wonder on Sep 26, 2010

    Yes, the journal really helps.A very good post.

  • cherryflower70 on Sep 26, 2010

    Thanks wonder.

  • drelayaraja on Sep 28, 2010

    Lovely share. Nice views and analysis.

  • cherryflower70 on Sep 28, 2010

    Thanks Raja.

  • Temjen Imchen on Sep 28, 2010

    Positive energy is the energy that is essential for everyone to stay healthy and happy.

  • cherryflower70 on Sep 28, 2010

    Absolutely true @Temjen. Thanx for reading.

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