Learn how to detect jealousy.

No matter what you do and no matter how hard you try, you just cannot please everyone. There is always going to be someone who does not like you or cannot stand you. It will not necessarily be your fault; in fact, it might have something to do with your abilities and possessions, not your personality or character. In other words, someone could be envious of you. By reading this article, you will learn how to tell if someone is jealous of you.

The First Way you can do this: He thinks of you as a showoff. Whether or not you make a big deal out of things you accomplish, he acts like you are showing off or making him look bad.

The Second Way you can do this: She is upset you have more talent than her and she grunts each time you succeed at something she fails to do. How dare you be good at something she is not!

The Third Way you can do this: He is offended by your success. He takes great umbrage every time he realizes how well you are doing.

The Fourth Way you can do this: She dislikes the attention you garner. She becomes mad when you are recognized or congratulated and given an honor or reward for being outstanding.

The Fifth Way you can do this: He fears you socially, not physically. He is intimidated because you are better off and have a higher amount of power or skill than he does.

The Sixth Way you can do this: She is upset you bailed her out of a troubling situation. She complains you should have let her take care of her mess, even though she clearly could not.

The Seventh Way you can do this: He dislikes you for no good reason. If you have not done anything to him and he cannot give you a lucid explanation for his dislike of you, you can assume he is jealous of you.

The Eighth Way you can do this: She is upset you have more things. She is agitated you make more money and have more possessions and friends than she does.

The Ninth Way you can do this: He is waiting for you to slip. He wants you to fail, even if he is not directly competing with you.

You have learned how to tell if someone is jealous of you.

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  • Anuradha Ramkumar on Jun 4, 2010

    Now, I know how to find out if somebody is jealous of me. Thnx for the share.

  • Tiki33 on Oct 9, 2011

    Thanks for sharing this. People are jealous for numerous reasons. Sometimes jealousy can go to far so it is best to not take company of jealous people.

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