Things can be left unsaid to keep yourself from the damages that may be caused by these unsaid things that were said. (If that makes sense to you, give yourself a pat on the back.) For those of you going through a hard time in your life, you’re not alone. Believe me. I struggle with my love life, my school work, my grades, everything. I can’t handle it all on my own, but I have such high expectations of myself, I expect myself to be able to handle it. It’s tough, but I do my best under all this pressure. What do I gain from taking a burden like this? Strength. That is all.

Most people consider others oblivious to their pain. Everyone has it, but everyone also has a good time with a few close friends. There’s also those few activities that help us escape from the pain, and let it go. It is different for all of us. It matters because this pain can’t be taken forever. Who doesn’t want to escape from reality and live in a completely worry-free world? It’d be something to dream about. Almost everything going your way, everything happening exactly as it’s planned… But what good would that be? It’d be great, but then it’d just get boring over time. Seriously, without pain, life wouldn’t be so entertaining. It’s like a test, there are questions that you struggle with, but then there are the questions that make you go, “Hey! That’s easy, the answer is ________!” right off the bat. Some of it is easy, but other parts are not as simple.

I know there’s a reason for everything, but that is just my opinion. Everything has a reason. I believe that the pieces to the puzzle fall into place before you can imagine what the finished picture is like. If we’re even remotely close to something that will further that puzzle being completed, I know we’ll do anything to achieve the goal. Our goals are something worth working for. That will to live must keep burning for some reason. What reason do you think that is? We wish to see what the future holds for us. There’s no such thing as “I HAVE NO FUTURE!”. Everyone has a future, they have to work hard to accomplish it, because face it, nothing in life comes easy.

Bullies. People deal with them, People put up with their crap. Some people even commit suicide because of them. Well hello! Why can’t we do anything about it? Why not punch them in the face for being rude to you? They sure deserve it. But here’s the thing, if a bully tells you something rude, forget them, you’re one person, they’re another. You do NOT need to let someone else’s words dictate your life. Because honestly, what someone says about you, shouldn’t matter, unless it’s a nice thing said. 

Work to smite your enemies. If your boss is promoting someone that half asses their job, work so hard, and so well, that they CAN’T ignore the fact you’re doing a better job than someone on a higher level. If they still ignore you, it’s either time to find a new job, or risk getting fired to get in their face about it.

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