Knowing what you want is not always clear. Knowing what you want is the bug-a-boo of many people I know. When you ask most people what they want they will give you a stock answer. Something like:

• Lots of money
• A sexy body
• A soul-mate
• Happiness
• A new house

While these are all fine things to want, they are too general to be of any real use when trying to create change in your life.The truth is, your inner phoenix always knows exactly what you want in fine detail. The trick is listening to what she has to say.

NOTICE: IF YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IT IS YOU WANT, YOU C A N F O R MU L A T E T HE A C T I O NS  T O M A K E I T H A P P E N !

I have one thing more to say about getting what you want before I reveal how to listen to what your phoenix is telling you.Your desires have to be realistic. If you are a man, you will not succeed if what you want is to be pregnant. If you are 50, you will not succeed if what you want is to be 20 again. These are no-brainers that everyone can agree
are impossibilities.

However, where most people fail is to compare their desires not to reality,but to their judgment of who they currently are.

NOTICE: IF GOING AWAY! YOU WORK FOR CHANGE, WHO YOU ARE NOW IS COMMON S E N S E T E L L S Y O U T O U S E Y O U R V IS I O N OF THE FUTURE AS YOUR GUIDE, NOT YOUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES!

Here’s an example:

• You make a good income, enough to pay your rent and put food on the table. You even make enough to have a few hundred dollars in your pocket for fun stuff each month. But it’s not really the life you want. You desire to increase your income by $2,000 a month. This would give you that beautiful new car you want and a good vacation; not to mention a new wardrobe, a new TV, and that sweet new stereo system you saw recently.
• You look at your life and realize that given what you do for a living, and your education, as well as how much you have ever made in the past, that extra $2,000 is out of the question. For the person you are right now, there is no way you will make that much money!So you give up.
• The reality is though, that even if it takes time and effort, you probably can boost your income by $2,000 a month. But to believe that fact you have to stop comparing your desire with who you currently are! Who you currently
  are has been formed by the sub-conscious habits you are about to change!
• Your inner phoenix knows better. She knows you can get what you want.Listen to her and these concerns will vanish.Okay, let’s explore how you listen to your phoenix when she tells you what you want. It’s very simple if you use The Want List.