Letting go, Whatb does that even mean? My intention tonight was not to write about this but through a conversation with another I found myself on a topic I just cant let go of once it is put back in my immediate memory.Then all my thoughts go directly to the things I saw, things I di and of course the numerous people I met.Good or bad, person, place or thing, It is the same. How do we let go? Of anything, anyone? and do we really need to? past experience is what brought us to the place we are, and in the future these experiences will take us to a different road. So why is it we berate ourselves for our memories?Are these experiences not just a roadmap? little twists and turn down the road of life, like an adventure, wondering where our next choice will lead us? maybe we will change jobs because of new lessons learned, or new people met? maybe just maybe it will be a hard lesson, one we wish at the time that we didnt have to go through, but what if what if everything really does happen for a reason? Should we not look for the twist in this part of the road and see where it leads us? maybe some of our experiences are really not that bad, we only percieve them as that bad because our personal feelings were hurt, maybe the others involved were meant to go down a different road and we actually taught them a lesson? maybe thier life changed because they met us, was your ex really that bad? or just because they left you for someone more suited to them, maybe they were scared or maybe they were only meant to be with us for the lesson. Was your last job that bad? really, what made it bad? you must have learned something that assisted you getting the job you have now, maybe someone you met through that job led you to your new position. Maybe if we really started to look at our little bubble differently and realized maybe we are here to learn, the pressure to let go wouldnt feel like a dreaded chore but the need to let go just disappears and who would be better for it? It clears the way for more memories to be made, more people to meet, more things to buy, It could mean more lost jobs, more crappy relationships, more moving from one place to another but without new experiences and old memories where would your life be today?????