People want to experiment if they can really live with that person for the whole life, so they plunge in to LIVE IN RELATIONS, before taking the big step!!

So what are the things which are really important to be taken in notice? If you are deciding to move on with your lover then, it must be an important decision. Obviously if you are in love, you would try everything to get settled with them. But the ground realities are quite different!! You would like to spend some time under same roof, before taking the BIG STEP. Like for many things which come into mind, one is COMMITMENT. Do you really want to have this word incorporated in to your relation? These are a few considerations, which should be kept in mind, if you are thinking of moving in.

The foremost thing in moving in, is the proper timing. Don’t make a decision in hurry. Ensuring that you both really know each other really well is important. Don’t go for it, just for the sake of it, or under friend’s pressure, who may say, take a risk. No, not at all. Use your brains. Think if you want be closer or it’s just like any other date!! The next thing is to be compatible and allow the sharing thing come into the home. If you love somebody, you always see the positive things in himher, but when you live under a same roof then you will know the other aspects, not necessarily the negative ones in himher. if you can accept those in that person, then surely you can live under one roof. Trying to adjust is the key. Don’t think of mine and yours think ours? Discover each other. See if hishers annoying habits are not disturbing your mental peace. Working on a issue with words and brains, better than the words war and then some good show pieces getting crushed as a result of that word war!!! As I said sharing is important, that means everything including the bills, to buying.etc. Money matters sometime become what all it matters.  The important thing is to enter the house but keeping your ego under the doormat outside the door. Do everything equally. Share your work and thus division of labour should be given utmost importance. Respect each other privacy. Don’t burden him or you. Evenly done things are more nicely completely. So remember to be yourself, leave pretentions and lead a happy live. Don’t forget to love each other!!!

Have a happy life!!