just so everyone know im not talkin about love for your mother or father or anything like that but the love you may have for another person

to start off i have thought i was in love a couple times but most of the time i have found it to be more about lust than love why people get these feelings i dont know but there only one word to explain it and that is (DIFFICULT) if you have ever experianced anything you thought was love than you know it was very very hard and complicated bt im sure most of the time people just thought they were in love but were never truly sure

when people think their in love most of time the time its when they se this guy/girl and get this feeling like you have to meet them or be with them and dont want anyone else to have them.. then once you get this person to be yours you are so happy and think its goin to last forever and nothing could ever take you guys apart well after a month or so goes by a thought crosses your mind like what am i doin here wasting my time with this just one person when i could be out there with other people having fun and meeting new people. but at that time you think nothing of it and then another months goes by and that thought has crossed your mind many times.

finally you realize you have to get out of this but your stuck cause you do care about the person and you dont want to hurt them you just dont care about them like you dsid the first time you met them well i suggest just being honest with this person and tell them how you felt and how you feel now sure some tears will shed and people will get mad and sad but after a week or two everyone will get over it and who know you two could just end up being like best friends giving eachother advice on dating other people sure you will have this small feeling of jelousy but just think he/she is gettin sloppy seconds adn that jelousy will go away.

but a little peace of advise dont lead the person on for to long try and get out of it when you think you need to or your just nt happy with the person anymore.