Love to Hate and Hate to Love…what a dilemma..

Well, it’s a loooong time since I voiced my thoughts on triond. I did once in a while drop in for old times sake and check out some articles…of my friends….who, I feel are the reason for me to come back for whatever little time I do. Besides, I am down with chicken pox since last wednesday. Not much energy..I have missed my dance classes too :( :(

So, do I hate Triond?? I dont think so..hate is a very strong and negative emotion. Do I love Triond?? Well, I think not.I just like the community on Triond and I cannot forget that here is where I got published for the first time.Ok, I have given up on triond before this and come back…but this time, I am not entirely taking a sabbatical. I will peep in occasionally and may be more than occasionally, if I feel like it. I love some of my friends here…and what they write.. I sincerely look forward to reading their new articles. 

My relationship with Triond is over…we are just acquaintances now..a friendly break up ;) .The relationship went sour because Triond did not believe in it’s maintenance. It does not seem to understand the importance of a word called “concern”. I toiled and toiled and spent hours on it. Yet, all I got was disregard for my efforts.

Well, I am not going to trash it further because I am grateful to Triond for the amazing friends it has given me. Some of them are very precious to me today and I would love to meet them in person. I want to thank all my friends here..I cant take names as I am scared I would miss out someone. I must however mention that I am so very sad about Martin. Martin, I don’t know what you are suffering from or why you are in a 6*6 room…I just want you to get well soon and get out of that goddamn room. I want you to breathe fresh air and smile when the wind caresses your face. I wish you would write wonderful poetry….full of hope and joy. I wish life gives you loads and loads of happiness :) . I love your poetry and include you in my prayers.

I will keep posting once in a while and will try my best to catch up on my favourite writers when I visit.

Meanwhile, you can find me on redgage. I am currently in a relationship with redgage ;) …I do hope it holds my fancy…

meanwhile, you can find me @

http://www.redgage.com/czarina

and if you find it interesting enough, join me by going to the link below..

http://www.redgage.com/?refby=czarina

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  • jotomy on Feb 8, 2012

    I hate the word hate. So don’t hate anyone for any reason which reflects on our health and nothing we get from it rather loosing some one or some thing. Negative emotions always hurts us as well as others. Keep smiling and go ahead.

  • Margaret Boseroy on Feb 8, 2012

    Thanks for visiting. ^_^ How are things at redgage?

  • Safa on Feb 9, 2012

    All the best

  • angelji on Feb 9, 2012

    Good luck friend…visit me also here ;)

  • E B Wilkes on Feb 9, 2012

    I too dislike Triond, but love having met a wide-array of great friends here. Other than that I will no-longer publish one thing.

  • Vinaya says good bye on Feb 9, 2012

    I’m with you on RedGage.

  • dazzlejazz on Feb 9, 2012

    You, me and ImKarn23 are SO soul sisters!!! I wrote an article on my ‘relationship’ with Triond too (and so has ImKarn23)!!!
    Oh honey, so sorry to hear you’ve had chickenpox. Yukky. And don’t scratch!
    Will catch ya on redgage (we’re in the honeymoon stage too!)
    xxx

  • Aroosa Gloomy on Feb 9, 2012

    I’m joined Redgage long ago:)

  • Aroosa Gloomy on Feb 9, 2012

    I joined redgage long ago.Thankx 4 this

  • megamatt09 on Feb 9, 2012

    Ah the walls keep tumbling down.

  • Dora77 on Feb 9, 2012

    zarina,
    I’ve clicked on i like it button for you.
    Thanks! goodlucks!

  • Martin Kloess on Feb 9, 2012

    connect with me on FB

  • SharifaMcFarlane on Feb 9, 2012

    Too bad that you missed dance. Hope you are better.

  • sheilanewton on Feb 10, 2012

    Lovely article. Nice to be friends with you, my lovely Zarina, on here – and on RedGage too. Now don’t you go forgetting about my posts on Triond! I’m still here regularly, so pop in and take a peek!

  • erwinkennythomas on Feb 10, 2012

    you’re such a good friend! I always look forward to your work

  • sheilanewton on Feb 11, 2012

    Clled in to say hello and give another ‘I like it’!!

  • Dora77 on Feb 11, 2012

    revisited to say i like it!

  • avissado on Feb 11, 2012

    brilliant and am sure a lot of us here can identify with this. This plus a click I like

  • Ruby Hawk on Feb 12, 2012

    Oh, I am so sorry you have left us but I hope for your success on Redgage, I will drop by when I have more time.

  • vijayanths on Feb 13, 2012

    Sorry to see you leave. You have been so good to me and many others. Good luck for your success at Redgage.

  • girishpuri on Feb 14, 2012

    you love it or hate it but you just can’t ignore it…

  • ittech on Feb 14, 2012

    redgage is a interesting concept joined a while back active now after some time see you there nice still keep reaching here at triond

  • lauralu on Feb 18, 2012

    Nice article!

  • ittech on Feb 18, 2012

    Wonderful piece of writing. This is mind-blowing stuff, my friend.

  • ittech on Feb 19, 2012

    I like it!

  • girishpuri on Feb 23, 2012

    you love it or hate it , you just can’t ignore it….lol

  • yes me on Feb 23, 2012

    Hate nothing but the word its self… sorry your having probs, take care and cheers fir noo the noo

  • rgreenfield on Feb 27, 2012

    love… hate… love… I feel the same way… good share…

  • Martin Kloess on Mar 14, 2012

    triond didn’t read this.

  • Laura Mcauley on Mar 16, 2012

    frustrating, eh? thanks for the share!

  • CHIPMUNK on Mar 22, 2012

    an experience with triond is challenging

  • blanka on Apr 4, 2012

    Deep. Real. You don’t see this kind of sincere everyday. It hurts to say goodbye many times, but many times it’s necessary. No, it’s not hate; it’s just resignation.

    Lovely piece. Do let’s be friends too.

  • Martin Kloess on Apr 4, 2012

    stopped by

  • Sincere504 on May 24, 2012

    i hope i can one day be included in with your favorite writers. Sorry you lost interest before i joined this community. catch u later and get well soon…

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