Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

( 1 Corinthians: 4-13 )

Love is a beautiful thing, as described in the Bible. It is not stated that it causes tears, heartbreak, pain and suffering, even suicide. But why does this happen? Had there been any mistake?

There had been a couple of facts that make love wrong. But before that, I would like to make my statement known. My theory in love is that: AS LOVE INCREASES, CAREER DECREASES AT UNCONSANT TIME, AND VICE VERSA.

Let me explain further my satements. “As love increases, career decreases.” In the case of us, teenagers, we do not have our careers, but we are students so we have our studies. I have observed, based on mediate and immediate observations and personal experiences, that students with “zero lovelife” excel more in studies than those who have a lovelife, hence the statement: career increase, love decrease and career decrease, love increase.

For my explanation regarding this matter, I might as well say that people with zero lovelife doesn’t have much things to impede on their studying, while students with lovelife tend to get busy with their lovelife, neglecting now their studies. Am I right?

Next, my theory had a condition in it, and it says, at an UNCONSTANT TIME, meaning, it may not be the right time. Because I believe that things happen in God’s time and not in our own time.

So, my advice for people (or students/teenagers like me) who are single and with zero lovelife, don’t fret. Let us not rush things for we now know the consequences. Because love is like a butterfly, the more it is chased, the more it eludes. Take time to enjoy our youth, after all, we’re students, so we’re supposed to study.

However, not a disclaimer, but this is a theory yet to be constantly proved, a subject to your critcisms, it may or may not be applicable to everybody but never try to be an object of experimentation.