Since childhood we have been listening to fairy tales or watching movies featuring a girl who is poor,kind,loves nature and  a prince who is cruel, whose subject hates him.Both meet by fate and fall in love.Prince changes,becomes nice and everything becomes perfect.

Not only this in teens we believed that and searched for our perfect opposite.

 our mind is influenced by that fact that opposites attract and they are perfect for each other.we might also have noticed many examples from our life and took it as a universal truth,that a perfect pair is one who comprises of opposites.

but do they really form a perfect pair?

well i don’t think so ,

I will like to tell you something ,in hindu culture in case of arrange marriage match making is done,to make it sure that qualities of girl and guy match.so that they do not have any problems later on.Even our  horoscopes compatibility tests say so.or we can say match making do not believe in OPPOSITES ATTRACT.

 what i can say is OPPOSITES FIRSTLY ATTRACT THEN THEY ATTACK.and it might be right.Because after some time in a relationship we start pointing what we loved about the person initially.

people really lack the understanding and patience so that with clashing interests and beliefs they can stay together.we do not respect opposites opinion.

so either people have to be patient enough not to hurt the other one or we need to change famous oxymoron.