Why do most of us spend life being negative and critical of each other. Does it make us happy? I do think some of us are happy when they are negative about others or even incredibly, about themselves. But where does all these negativity come from or more importantly where does it lead to.

I firmly believe that the past is past. Whatever happened in the past cannot be changed, so we are going to skip the reason why we enjoy negative thoughts. We are going to jump to what happens when we are negative.

When we are being negative about others or ourselves, what we are generating is a bad energy. This bad energy generates bad vibes which lead to bad moods or bad outcomes.

Now we will concentrate on good points. Have you ever tried being completely positive about something that you are anticipating. Suppose you are anticipating winning a race, make sure that you are thinking only about winning or the feel of the cup in your hands. These are positive thoughts which will improve your confidence, boost your morale which will ultimately result in you winning this race. It is a simple concept explained in detail in “The Secret”.

The same principle can be used to change any aspect of your life. Suppose you want a better job, what are you thinking? Are you thinking about a better job? I don’t think so. Most people would enjoy talking about how much they hate their job. When people do this, they are concentrating only on the negative aspect of their job. What they need to do is think positively about whatever it is they want. If you want a better job, you need to only concentrate on the better job. You need to feel the happiness you will feel when you will be at that job. If you do this, you are bound to get the job.

“The Secret” also asks us to be always thankful. Let me give an example. I am thankful that I have a keyboard. I am thankful that I have a computer. I am thankful for my eyesight. I am thankful for the co-ordination between my fingers. I am thankful to God for all this.

Most people spend their life complaining about what they don’t have. Rather they should be happy that they have so much.

I don’t want to stretch this, so in conclusion, always concentrate on what you want and be thankful for what you have. Soon, you will have everything you want.