Everyone. everyone has problems
problems , part of our lives
Sounds hard to digest ! Aaa…
Yes
No one on this earth, earthly substance, can never escape from problems.
There is no mean to our lives without problems.
Problems are goal of our lives,
Problems are beginning ,end of our lives,
They shape of our lives,
They are mean to our lives.
They are like ocean, (ocean = collection of problems)
Ocean, from one part we cannot see the opposite part .Its when we see it is by swimming through it ,by then its too late.

Ok,
Imagine you take a dip, only a dip in it (ocean), you are drowned to the center from where u have lost your chance way back to the shore from where u came from.

Now,
You find water,you hold your breath,start pushing the water well up to your back .Will, will the space remain empty you pushed ?
No, it will be filled by water immediately , if not the same the another. instead…. the shark gets a moment of you and gets out to prey you .
Now……
You have a greater problem. you come on the surface to breath, you are relaxed while the shark pulls your leg by its dangerous teeth .A problem.
Aaa…..Oooo….Ouch……!
Well
You are now hanging between problem and relaxation
What do u do?
Face it!, Fight it! If you win, you win your life
if u loose……… u loose your life. who cares! Everybody is like you in the same ocean, Some are caught by shark, some by the crab, some by someone, No time to care for others ,
ONLY HANGING!
Ok,
After that you hurry to reach the shore which u cannot even see,Ocean equally surfaced,
But, But….. Waves ride against you,try to discourage you, if you cut them thunderly, send your waves thunderly you will get some relief ,that’s again the period of relaxation while doing so the next shark gets a moment of you and gets out to prey you and the story encircles you reach the shore at the end of your life, when the end is next to you, you are on the shore .

STAGES
“Problems are problems , they don’t occur in same guise, some have some problem, some have other ,some have either, but none has neither”

Ok,
Ask an infant “what’s your problem” It has a problem ,it cannot understand what you are saying and instead signs a cry which an problem for sensitive people
Ask the same after some 3 to 4 years .It says “Problems , I have heard of it ,Its in our math’s books, I don’t know which problem u are talking of refer it to me , I will ask my teacher to solve it for u” That’s his problem
Ask the same after some 5 to 6 years . He says “Studies is my problem” oh… studies is a problem to me also.
Ok,Ok,
Ask him after 2 to 3 years later. He says “I am in search of a suitable gal friend” This is his problem .He doesn’t know the condition of folks with gal friends.

Ask him after his marriage,He says “ My wife is my problem” (This is after some time of marriage )

Ask his wife, She says “My husband is my problem,he doesn’t come home early, he doesn’t help me,that…..this……” well a list of problems.

Ask him at some age , ie.. in his 40’s ,He says “Children,Children are my problems .This is weak at studies ,that is naughty,i am fed of this … that…” Huh h…

After some years in his fifties he says “I have a load of work with no extra wages ,over times ,boss is very strict ,children are not listening ,wife is not charming ,bigger responsibilities

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…………………”

(Asking him all these questions can you guess my age .Well i don’t know when i may see the shore)

By now he is even frightened and feared of his growing age ,his beard are now white coloured

has a hard skin, head which seemed years ago as forest has been cultivated by age to form a flat cricket,football,hockey,tennis,ice hockey ……… etc grounds .
He feels his age by just feeling his hand on his head,his beard ,he now feels he energy lowered with age .now he on the verge of the shore he swam across, he now recalls everything,the path he swam,the way he swam. And… just one day he retires from all these problems.

Yes ,he dies.

The shore becomes his carpet,his body is lying on it,its earthy, it vanishes .The soul,unearthly gets freed,gets freed of all problems ,it has reached its destiny,free from all problems.Problems which seemed never to end have ended for it.

Sooooooo…

Optimistically… ,Problems are great ,they teach us our way, they shape our way, they lead us in the way, they mean our way.

Problems cause problems , problems mean problems.

Anonymous said “ Best way to get out of a problem is to face it and solve it”

Problems are mean …Ok,Ok,. Lets end it here . If i write for a while and you read it it still its a problem ,problem of getting bored.

But remember

“Best way to face ,fight a problem is just start with a gentle smile and then think over it”