Letting go is hard, but no one said life was easy. Some of us make the decision to stay and some of us make the decision to not stay. If you stay though and fight for your relationship and you really have unconditional love, it won’t be easy, but it will be worth it if the both of you want it! If it wasn’t easy we can’t appreciate the good things when they do happen. Take the experiences in life and learn, grow and get stronger from them. Do not loose respect for yourself by allowing others to treat you unkind and always demand respect as well as you giving it in return. Men have no problem giving us what we need. They have a problem with giving us what we want. Remember these words. Being in relationships is almost like interviewing a life partner.

Do not settle for less and if you cry more than your happy, then you have to start having certain standards. When we learn to love ourselves, to take care of ourselves and realize we deserve happiness, you will start attracting the right people in your life. When that happens, its a wonderful life and the both of you will cherish each other, respect each other, commit to each other and do for each other by living a balanced life. Not one person doing more in the relationship to keep it together. This note can be beneficial to a man or woman. Hope it was encouraging and that you implement it into your lives. Set requirements for your life, then you and your partner both know what you both require from each other. Then commit to it and do it. Having to do a “duty” makes us do things well, but “love” makes us do them beautifully!