Lets face it we all have some fantasy in our minds that we’ve always wanted to play out in the bedroom. Some of those fantasies involve hand cuffs and whips, which I’ll get to that in another article, but others involve dressing up and acting.

Ever since we were little we always liked to play pretend. Playing pretend was fun because we could be anything we wanted to be in a second. We could be Wonder Woman flying around in our invisible jet, or we could be a princess locked in a tower waiting for our prince to come. Role playing was great growing up and it still is great, when we use it in the bedroom.

Role playing is all about you feeling sexy. So the first thing in figuring out what is going to make you feel sexy, I think, is to imagine wearing the costume and what you can do with it. For example, lets say you like the sexy school girl out fit and the way that it shows off your butt and depending on how you cross you legs, a little more than your butt is visible. That’s only part of it, I call that part the “tease” factor. What do you want your guy to see, and what do you want him thinking about the whole time you’re in your costume? The second thing to think about is where can you go with this costume? For example, with the sexy school girl costume you can pretend your guy is the principal, you got called into his office when someone noticed you going down on your teacher. The “principal” can tell you, that it was naughty to go down on your teacher with out going down on the “principal” first and that you need to be punished with a spanking. In this fantasy by letting your guy be the “principal” it does give him the power position and some woman like that. Another example, where you’re in control would be dressing up as a sexy police woman. Playing the role as a police woman you’re now in charge and maybe in order for your guy to get out of being arrested for exposing himself to you, he needs to do everything you tell him to. Playing a police woman give you the power and the control in the bedroom.