One of the keys is learning how to create the irresistible attraction that will make him want you. It doesn’t matter whether the man you want is your new co-worker, a long-time friend, your husband, or even a complete stranger you met at a party or a bar. When you know how to attract men, you can ignite the flames that will keep a man interested and have him constantly thinking of you, even if he’s surrounded by other women. You become a guy magnet.
Steps:
- Be yourself. Nobody likes a pushover and a lack of personality. Agreeing on everything he says won’t make it like you more.
- Do your homework on the guy. You must ask around. Find out if he has a Myspace/Facebook/other social networking site. This is great for finding out what he’s into, like music/films/general opinions. You can use this information to start up conversations later on.
- Use mutual friends to your advantage here. If you see them talking, go over and join in. Your friend should introduce you, and voila! Now maintain the smiling and greetings every time you see him.
- When you next speak to him properly, steer the conversation around to the Internet or computers, and ask if he has Instant Messenger.
- Go the extra mile. Stand out from the crowd. Do small things to get his attention, like if you already know him (albeit vaguely) make sure you are always there for him if he needs someone to talk to or if he needs to borrow something. Does he play sports? If so, you better get your butt on a bleacher with a towel, water bottle, and whatever else he needs. This way you’re showing him you like him without telling him.
- Let them feel manly! Seize control without them becoming aware by letting him comfort you through a hard time. Allow him to think he made you feel better.
- Keep it real: be natural. Keep them laughing, smiling, and happy. Don’t attention seek or complain about other people. Except maybe teachers/bosses.
- Once you get a guy to like you, try to let go a little TINY bit so they can come. Ask your friends for their opinions if he likes you if you cannot tell. Maybe flirt a little with other guys. Play hard-to-get, but always be honest.
- Don’t change who you are! If you have to, he’s definitely not worth it. Be honest, and don’t be one of the girls that acts completely different around her boyfriend.
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