I have been thinking for a quite a while now, regarding this whole “surrogate mother ” deal. Every day i see more and more as to surrogate mothers or adds on becoming a surrogate mother to make money. I think that the idea of asking someone else to have a baby for you is week minded and stupid do to the fact that your always gonna live with the thought that the baby was not conceived by you. I understand that most women do it because they cant have babies themselves, but its ridiculous when other women do it so that they can keep their splendid physical appearance. If caring for a baby that was not conceived by ones self, why not adopt a child? why bring more children into the world, knowing that their are children out there without a home and in need of a real family that can show them  that the world is not as cold as they see it. That somewhere out there, their is somebody that can give them the love and nurturing that they need. Still people say that the thought of a surrogate mother bringing a child to this world to be under someone Else’s care is irrelevant to children being adopted. When in real life the relevance between them is right in front of their faces, surrogate’s or adopted children are practically the same thing, you adopt a child that has no parents to give them love,nurturing and everything you would give to a child that where really yours, right? Well, surrogate children are the same, you “adopt” a baby that doesn’t belong to you and you give them love, nurturing and everything you would give to a child that where really yours, right? because the child is not conceived by you, therefor making the child adoptable, metaphorically speaking because your taking the child from the real mother. This is my point of view on “surrogate mothers”. I think it’s just another way of taking away the only hope a foster child has to be happy.