The power of communication in the home cannot be overemphasized. Through it, difficult situations are resolved and doubts are cleared. Through it, malice, fighting, high blood pressure and divorce are avoided; while joy, peace, progress and answers to prayers are experienced.

WAYS TO TALK IT OVER

T – Take a convenient time to talk.

A – Adopt a learner’s posture

L – Learn to express your feelings CLEARLY. But do it politely

K – Keep emotions under control

I –Identify problems and concentrate on solving them without attacking personalities

T – Think through before you speak

O – Overlook trivialities. Don’t sweat the small stuffs

V – Visit your Pastor, if necessary for counseling and spiritual advice

E – Endeavour to involve your children when necessary, especially when issues concerning them are to be discussed

R – Remember to always pray together. A praying family stays together