She suggests to pay for herself

It is the most widespread example of check. As already very long ago there is no accurate rule how to behave in a similar situation, the plan is necessarily necessary to you. Probably, she fairly assumes that from its party would be rough not to offer you to pay at least for itself.

But all not so is simple, as the estimation of your behavior entirely depends on its individual qualities. Some girls will be almost offended to depth of soul if you suggest to pay everyone for yourselves, and some will be revolted by that you have paid for all independently.

The help: Make a compromise. Let to it know that you simply want it to treat and pay for all independently, and she can pay, when you will go restaurant (cafe, a bar, club) together next time.
It, generally, the hypothetical offer. Can joke about it and tell something like “Pleasure from your presence is the excellent contribution”, etc.

It shows the discontent

This very provocative test. If or when she says that it something not to be pleasant (wine, the meal, surrounding conditions) your reaction will be truthful reflection of your person.

If you from those people who practically never pay attention to similar complaints you should learn to do it.

Ability to solve arisen this sort of problems – a key to success as the majority of people, seemingly, don’t consider that their comfort is important enough to complain. However if to it something stirs, most likely, it already a problem.

The help: Inactivity will make you a rag in her eyes. You can suggest to go to it to other place (if it is around noisy) or can talk to attendants.

If you have made the last be attentive. The thin approach and polite behavior – a key to success in the present state of affairs. Any rough remark will be necessarily noticed, and it anyway is far you won’t get.

She tries to confuse you

In time appointment you can face various comments and tricky questions in your address. Try not to perceive it into the account. Поддразнить you and to ask silly questions are one of tests of your mood and sense of humour.

To it can actually it is interesting learn about you that she asks also the direct answer – a good exit from a similar situation. However the best way – not to feel its touched question and not to show it.

The help: Keep easy and the most important thing – tell it truth. Regardless of the fact that she asks you (your likes and dislikes, last relations), lie – absolutely unacceptable way.

If she asks your opinion concerning shirts or a restaurant choice, it is necessary to think up not less original answer. The main thing that you didn’t fly into a rage, after all she simply wants to learn you of the present.