This is a very good example of how people loose what is a win-win situation for them just by getting influenced by some one who just thinks one sided and not in a balanced way. This is a small situation happened with me. One of my friends was looking for a loan to purchase new house. I searched through the best and the cheapest option for her and submitted her documents. She was getting the loan cheaper by about  7,000,000 spread over period of 20years. It was great deal since it was saving her a decent amount in hand every month. I also suggested her few great ideas to make money and help repay her loan.

 It was all looking fine. But, her loan got rejected and at the same time she got a notice from the construction company for excess payment as penalty charges. I wasn’t aware of all this. By the time I came to know about this, things had changed. The girl, supposedly my friend, had lost trust in me and the fact that I could still help her out with this situation.

This situation has got to her so much that she is just not ready to listen to me or anybody. Some of her relatives have made her understand that she should let go her house and concentrate on repayment of her other loan that she is carrying. The situation is so bad that though I wish to help her but the anger she is carrying in her mind, is not letting me help.

People don’t realise what they loose when they make decisions impulsively or in some stupid rage. It is really true that anger is man’s worst enemy because when people are angry they just can’t see or think what’s good for them and they just can’t think if someone is doing good or bad to them. Instead, if people can just hold for few seconds and analyse the situation, they would really be in a position to make good any kind of loss and if not that, at least would preserve relations which are real assets of life.

Guys and gals…..please….don’t take any decision in anger if possible. You could end up loosing a lot than you would normally have lost…like my friend has…it kind of pinches….so….it’s a small request…..