THE REALITY OF LIFE

Life is the existence of anybody on earth. The life the individual lives depend on the family that he/she comes from. Therefore whatever a man or woman becomes stems from the family background to an extent. Hence we say that the environment of an individual influences his social, educational, religious, political, economic and moral standing. Each individual has the capability of becoming what he/she wants base on the family background on one side and his determination on the other hand. There are many who are intelligent but as a result of financial difficulties they couldn’t complete their education. While as there are some from affluence home that are dull, for the fact that the money is there, they will use money to buy their certificate for them. They are been forced to go to school after all it cost them just a little money. This as a matter of fact will form the premise upon which our deductions will be based on.

Life in school is the most flamboyant thing in one’s life as such is conspicuous and outstanding in the life of every student whether in the primary, secondary and tertiary institutions. Life in school is crowded with a lot of aims, aspirations, dreams, and hopes of pleasantries. There is no second thought given to it in its totality.

In other words, students don’t see beyond their noses when viewing life. They see to the immediate and use that as a yardstick for measuring life. In school students pray earnestly to finish and enter the labour market thinking that, immediately they finish that there is an already made job waiting for them. More to that, if there is anything holding them hostage or debarring them from finishing on time, they wouldn’t mind going an extra mile to see that such impediment is removed. All these they do, simply because they live then a complete good life of total dependence. They have many friends that give them strength and support and others who siphon their resources. It’s at this time in one’s life that one thinks life is easy going and as such should continue flourishing.

In addition, real life starts immediately after your school. The pocket money, miscellaneous and others monies given before stop. The tips, from here and there before, cease the chain of girl friends and boy friends are reduced. Those things you treasured most in school, no money to continue with them.  The body cream and cosmetics used before you are no longer able to afford them. You find it difficult to meet daddy and mummy again.