At breakfast we put our food on our plates. We shared the jelly before we ate. Right before we leave the kitchen you said, ” Don’t leave me with the shit”! The shit that you don’t want me to stick you with. ( The Clean Up) Women we do leave the shit to you. It is what women will always do. I really never thought of shit that way, but now that you mention it, it will be something I say! I’ll use the phrase when I feel the situation fits. Definitely when someone tries to leave me with the shit!