CONVERSATION STARTERS

SO rapport/relationship building comes down to a  few simple steps.so what I’m going to do is give you a brief explanation of each step then I will go in to more detail afterwards(there are a lot more than i am going to publish in this article but i don’t want you to over think things so practice these points and i will teach you more in my next article)

In this article I will first tell you the steps and then go in to more detail afterwards..i will also include exercises for you to work on to improve your confidence and help you get used to judging a social situation a little bit better.

1..general appearance..now i don’t just mean how you dress i mean the general vibe you give off(people tend to make an impression  of you you within 5 minutes,the start of which is before you have even had chance to speak)

2..starting the conversation.Now this can be as simple or a complicated as you want to make it everybody is different some will keep it simple because it flows naturally  and they actually enjoy talking to people and some will make it complicated by trying different things in order to figure out what works well with different types of people and social situations and some will make it complicated because they over think and worry too much about the end result.

3..keeping a  good flow..now this one is simple as long as you do the first two right..you have started a conversation out of thin air now you just need to keep it interesting so people actually want to be around you.

4..Finish it!!..now here is where most people mess up.your having a good conversation why oh why do you want to grasp at straws until the conversation runs dry.There’s only one real reason and that’s because your looking to get lucky…ill cover more of this scenario at the end of the article.