We understand that believe in that things happen for a “something” special, esoteric and hidden position are socio-cultural representations, like most community attitudes as well as being a “help” those who manage to be permanently exempted from the rule just to govern with some power. However, we understand that this is something very deep, very close to the surface, while to explain that the meaning of our lives not opt -in tacit expression, that is written and if “things are in a certain way is because they had to be well” is equivalent to subtract sense, since we would only social entities, or better yet divine toys.
Do not consider it necessary to do too many arguments to say that every step we take what we condition mostly ourselves, tied to millions of local variables in the distance and at different times. 
It will be crucial at times somewhat believe that we are puppets, especially when we are on the brink of emotional chaos, appearing hundreds of ways to define and articulate: a lonely anxiety, mood destroyed, utter failure..
Not being a particular topic of this article, frustration (like many other things) is the expression of negative emotions as scheduled, while the birth of a failure in itself explains unfounded falsely state that we find the above negative emotions.
There are not frustration that wins, neither threads that dominate. The influence of thousands of variables that you can persuade consciously or unconsciously, are the founders of your actions (winners if they learn to adapt and to adapt the reality) and your attitude are to survive mystified for a long time.