Errors should be reasons for changes not excuses for discouragement. Many of us are afraid to try, afraid because we don’t want to be embarrassed or be distinguished as failures. The problem with some of ourselves and begin thinking that we are born losers. Some just freak-out and want to burn the house down. But life is so precious and we can’t afford to lose it in a game of trial and error. Yeah, that’s unbeatable. But one way of appreciating what’s right is realizing what’s wrong. But don’t get me wrong-I’m not insisting that we had to commit mistakes first before we can learn what’s right. I say that if we want to try things out we must choose those that are worth trying. Beware; you might be heading the bad way that leads to self-destruction. Now, if you’ve already tried and failed, try again, some good things don’t come so easily with a snap of our fingers. We must realize that some good things require a lot of hard work. But if after you had done your very best, even gave-up your last breathe, you still can’t reach your goal, cheer up! There’s still brighter world outside.

We must admit that not all things are intended for us. Remember that failure should not eat our heart-out, instead, think of it as a challenge, a reason for growth, for soaring high and you’ll end up not regretting the past but will thank it for making you strong to face whatever challenges to come. Don’t be rushed-up when you are confronted with the harsh realities of life. Take time for everything because everything it has its own time. Just think of those people who always fail, but due to their patience and never ending tries, they finally contributed such remarkable things that we are enjoying right now. Some of these great people are Thomas Alva Edison, Albert Einstein, Marie Curie, Charles Babbage and others that if I’m going to list down, space provided wouldn’t be enough and for sure, I’ll run-out of ink to write. No pain, no gain. No guts, no glory, they say.

You’ll see, after the darkest hours of committing errors, after the painstaking, after receiving words of discouragement, after the seemingly unending trials, you’ll receive a pat on your back. And if no one dares to do it, just call my name and I’ll be doing it especially for you.