They say true love waits. But does it literally mean to wait until forever? I guess it does. Love needs no rushing anyway.
Talk to the hand!
There are things worth waiting than chasing. Chasing for the love of your life is a perfect example of this.
For a girl to have a love life, unless she is aggressive, she needs to wait for the right guy to come to her. That is simply how things normally work in the universe. On the other hand, for a guy to have a love life, he needs to find his prospect girl. At one point, it can be viewed as chasing. However, he can’t just force things between him and the girl to happen. He needs to wait for the girl to say yes. He needs to wait for the girl to trust in him. He needs to do a lot of waiting. The question of how long to wait though, is enigmatic.
They say true love waits. But does it literally mean to wait until forever? I guess it does. Love needs no rushing anyway.
Talk to the hand!
I don’t believe this anymore. Waiting for love is a teenager’s notion. When you are 27 or older, waiting for love is no longer applicable. Whether you are a boy or a girl, you need to be more aggressive. Unless you want to be single forever, you need to expedite your search for love.
If you got rejected by your first prospect, then don’t bother yourself to force him/her to be yours. Find other prospects. If you got rejected for so many times, do not give up. Expand your search horizon. Go out more often. Meet new people. It is true that there are more fish in the ocean. All you need to do to catch them is to go fishing.
And do not think of abruptly changing your style just to please your prospects. They will later find out your true you, anyways. Just do little improvements. Be a better you without pretending to be somebody else.
If you find a prospect person who’s also considering you to be his/her prospect, consider it as a catch. Whether you love the person or not, give yourself a try. Do not rely too much of what you feel. Love is not just about emotions. It is also about decisions. You can control it. If you can’t, then you need to learn to control your emotions and feelings. Love as well as other feelings should not be blind. It should be guided and controlled.
Chasing for love can sometimes lead to disappointment. However when you are at the brink of dusk, you need to consider it as a fast paced adventure. Mourning over short miseries and disappointments eat up much of your time. Do not bother yourself to spend time mending these things. They are beyond your control. You need to hurry. You need to be quicker than your own heartbeat before it concocts its self-effacing emotions. To find love, you need to chase for it.
nice post…hope that you won’t wait in vain. nice work! 
I love the term you used, expedite. I believe there’s one love waiting for one person, the “somewhere out there” kind of thing. Just continue searching and expediting, and it’ll surely come.
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