We can often hear people saying that we should fight for our own happiness. But does fighting for it always end up to something good? Is it going to bring more unhappiness? Nevertheless, everyone wants to be happy but if the happiness that you are fighting for brings about a lot of unhappiness to the people around yo, especially the one you love the most, should we still fight for it?

When you fall in love with a person, you will definitely want to be in a relationship that will last with that person. But, what if that person does not feel the same for you? If you continue to fight to be with him, you are going to make him feel troubled and unhappy. It will be worse if he likes someone else and wants to be with that person but couldn’t because of you. Fighting for it will only bring about hurt and unhappiness to all three parties.

Love is supposed to be a happy thing and a relationship is supposed to enhance joy in life. If we insist on being with someone who does not love you, things will become ugly at the end and it will also jeopardise the friendship. Love and relationship is supposed to happen between two individuals who have mutual feelings for one another.

Some people have this thinking that yo will be the happier one if your partner loves you more than you love them. Yes, it is true and only applies to those that are in love with one another, not one sided relationship. Most people actually have this thinking and gets into relationship just because the other party loves them but they do not love them back the same way. In the initial stage of the relationship, it may be happy but as time passed, many problems will manifest.

So, fighting for your happiness is only correct when both parties have mutual feelings for one another. Never get into a relationship unless you are sure that you love that person and sees that person in your future. Will be writing an article about what are the things to consider before getting into a relationship. Look out for it!