According to Confucius, “By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.”

             Reflection is a kind of rewinding about the past which is give you some lessons and knowledge from many things you’ve done. A sort of inspection of yourself either you learn or gain something from being real and from being one of a person who use and try everything in order to make something that will encourage every person to do some actions or event that makes it a memorable one. To do some kind of reflection is to seek some experience of other people which is likely the same with yours. You will make it as your context and as your basis of making the first step to reflect. Some of other people I know used some example which is best fit to their situation. Others are using quotes and poems. The best part of reflecting is on sharing about the experiences and telling about what you feel that way so you go on through with how you worked to get over with such feeling you’ve felt. By reflecting, you may think that life must go on whatever will happen because in the cycle of life there is happiness and pain that was continues on evolving on every person’s struggles in life. In that way of manner, you may think that loneliness is also a part of your existence.

              Imitation through attitude, things and the way other people act as they are. This is the easiest way of managing our daily life to make it simple and manageable. Just like for example, if we want to renovate our house, we try to look at some other house and some brochures for us to have hints on how to do it and how to make it successfully and beautifully as some other model houses. But we must remember that by imitation, there is also the limitation of doing it for the fact that we are not perfect and we’re just only human that we can’t have everything we want even if we have a lot of money. To imitate is to live with non-optimistic life, we have no originality to everything we possess. That’s why when it comes to this part; we may say that loneliness takes its place.

                The most exiting of all is the experience we have undergone. The things we got hurt, the part we are stumbled and the place we are happy is we got it by our experience. For me, if I have many experiences, I may consider that I have so many learning because we as human will learn through our experiences. When we get on through the event we have before we may said that it was normal because we are through from it. We can adjust easily because it for us it was normal. That’s why, miseries erase and consideration of the situation arises.