Today is my Dad’s birthday. He would have been 92 if he were still living.

My Dad, Edsel, grew up in Little River, Kansas, a small town, surrounded by mostly farmland.  He was the youngest of three children – he had an older brother, Vincent, and an older sister, Eleanor.  Together, with their parents, they raised mostly wheat and hogs.  Life wasn’t easy in the early 1900’s.  They struggled like most of America to get through the Great Depression of 1929. 

The schools my Dad attended were so small, that in order to have athletic teams, everyone had to participate.  My Dad grew up playing baseball, football, basketball and ran track.  He was drafted in the Army in World War II.  His Dad could have kept him out of the war because he needed help on the farm, but my Dad became a Soldier. 

He wrote many letters to his parents while he was in the war.  There was not much he could tell them about what was going on, but he was faithful in staying in touch.  He did fight in the Battle of the Bulge and was wounded.  He received a purple heart because of that, along with several other medals.  When he arrived back home in the states, he attended college and got a job in Houston, Texas where he met my mother. 

My Dad was a very simple and hard-working man.  I learned to love sports -  because my Dad controlled our television set when he was at home – and that was a big part of what we watched.   He had to have had a lot of patients because I’m sure I asked him some of the same questions hundreds of times.  We attended many baseball and football games as a family.  If I asked my mother if I could go somewhere or do something, if she said I had to ask my Dad, then I knew the answer would probably be “no”. 

My Dad worked for Dow Chemical Co. in Freeport, Texas for nearly 30 years before he retired.  He and my mother had a home built in East Texas (near Nacogdoches) where my Mother’s family was from and moved there in 1980.  He planted peach, plum, pear and pecan trees – a very small orchard, but because he grew up on a farm, he enjoyed working outdoors. 

He enjoyed traveling and going to his Army reunions before he went to sleep and woke up in heaven, twenty-one years ago.  He died from a heart-attack, but at least he didn’t suffer.  There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of my Dad and miss him.  I know I will see him again, one day, and I have some very special memories of a very quiet, but great Dad.  I know many of you probably had similar Dads – they worked hard to support their families and had a lot of inner strength.  God blessed me with a great Dad!

  Photo of my Dad, myself and my Mom at Dad’s home in Kansas when I turned “18″

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  • Sandeep Sunny Jasrotia on Oct 19, 2011

    Its so sweet dear…Happy birthday to your dad….
    Smile..

  • Geri on Oct 19, 2011

    Thanks for sharing that. What memories we have of our parents and grandparents and try to get memories from them, while they are still alive and cherish them while they are here, because when they are gone, you miss them terribly. Talk to them about their memories and let them share with you, you will be glad you asked.
    Great article about your Dad and may he have the Happiest Birthday up in heaven with the angels!

  • Linda on Oct 19, 2011

    Cleta,
    You just made me cry. That was such a brief but moving tribute to your Father. We do need to appreciate our loved ones today, because tomorrow is never guaranteed. Thank you for sharing that with us.

  • mphsglo on Oct 19, 2011

    Happy Birthday to your father. This was a very nice tribute.

  • brenda a. s on Oct 19, 2011

    cj this was so beautiful, to have a father like yours is a true blessings happy birthday to him bren in east texas

  • CletaB on Oct 19, 2011

    Thanks so much for your comments – I appreciate them very much!!!

  • allen on Oct 19, 2011

    God Bless your Dad, must have been a wonderfuml person,cherish your memories. thanks for sharing, Allen

  • papaleng on Oct 20, 2011

    you have such a great dad and a very nice tribute of him.

  • Anmol Beri on Oct 20, 2011

    It was such a pleasure after reading your article.

  • CletaB on Oct 20, 2011

    Your comments are all so heart-warming. Thanks!!

  • Terri on Oct 20, 2011

    What a wonderful tribute to your Dad! It seems like the men from the Greatest Generation were the most wonderful men ever. God Bless you for being such a faithful and loving daughter!

  • CletaB on Oct 21, 2011

    Terri – thank you so much for those kind words!!

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