I saw this story featured in several British newspapers and I was infuriated! Many children are not being taught how to respect people, and it’s worrying to think of the consequences this will have on our next generation of adults, parents and leaders.

The boy’s father said that he teaches his children that respect has to be earned. OK, fine.. So the headteacher has not earned the boy’s respect, but in turn, by acting like a delinquent is the boy earning the headteacher’s respect? I think not. He’s doing the complete opposite. This is exactly the kind of behaviour that leads to kids having no respect for themselves and showing no respect to others. 

After reading this article, it really doesn’t come as a surprise that there are so many “problem” teenagers today. Education is not just about Shakespeare and science, it’s about learning social principles and how to be a successful and functional member of society. 

When I was in high school I wanted to be a teacher, but after moving to a rougher part of England when I was 15 (leaving the good high school and Headmistress Robinson behind), I saw how my classmates were acting and how they had no respect for the person standing at the front of the room, and decided that it wasn’t for me. I read stories of teachers being afraid of their students, and not correcting them when they’ve done something wrong – be it a spelling mistake or getting into a fight. This is how this generation of young people is being taught - that they can get away with anything. 

I sincerely hope that the school and school board side with the Mr. Harrison on this issue. The word “respect” has now become what gangs are fighting over and has lost all of it’s meaning. Respect is not what you get for being on the handle end of a knife, or being behind the trigger of a gun; nor does it come from being a yobbo or a hoodlum. Respect has to be learnt and earned or life will prove to be extremely difficult. 

This story is developing, as the boy’s four-and-a-half day suspension ends tomorrow…… 

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  • ken bultman on Oct 24, 2009

    Very well written and I share your thoughts on this matter. When today’s kids get out of school life and into life’s school they’ll soon learn what it means to have good manners. Better to have learned them early.

  • Maria Padilla on Oct 24, 2009

    I agree with you. I was educated in Mexico and attended 4 different schools there. The latter 2 were higher education, so these rules didn’t apply.

    For elementary and middle/high school, we would have to stand up say good morning/afternoon, name of teacher, and wait for them to tell us to be seated.

    In higher education we didn’t stand up and say good morning, but the sole presence of the teacher through the door was enough for everyone to shut up and gather their heads together.

    I want to say that for higher education in the USA it’s the same, but not to a “severe” degree like I experienced in my education in Mexico.

  • Papa Sparks on Oct 25, 2009

    Yes, a well-written piece that I enjoyed reading a lot.

  • Tanya Wallace on Oct 27, 2009

    Great write and very true!!

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