My writer’s eye is very sharp and my writer’s mind suggested that I write an article on my observations about all the men I have ever been in contact with. Women need to know just how simple getting along with a man can be. Keep in mind the Ten Cs apply to all the men in your life. The following are observations only and are not in any particular order.

Comfort – Men want and need to be comfortable around women. He doesn’t want to censor his tongue. He wants to be able to share the happenings of his day no matter what occurred without his women throwing a tantrum. He wants you to listen to him with understanding ears and mind. A man’s best friend should be his woman and this should come without conditions. As well, your father, son and male friends need this type of comfort. It is okay to voice your opinions, but use of feminine grace will make all the difference. It is not what you say, but how you say it. Trust, the more you listen rather than talk the more he will tell you.
Cook – Men need a woman that can really cook. A pot of spaghetti is great, but a pan of lasagna tastes better and will show off your skills. A smart woman can cook a healthy meal without his knowledge. A veggie lasagna with turkey meat will not only taste great, but it won’t give your man heartburn or a sour stomach. Cooking healthy for the men in our lives is essential because it is a fact that many men do not make regular doctor’s visits.
Cheap (date)- Men don’t mind staying in sometimes as it saves money and lessens the anticipation and anxiety of how much money he are going to spend for an outing. Women should be considerate enough, if a man is footing the bill, not to order everything or the most expensive thing on the menu all the time. A simple date to the movies will cost a grip because some women want the nachos, popcorn, Bon Bons, soda, Goobers – I mean come on, offer to go Dutch (share the bill) or get the check once in a while. Men love that.
Consistent – Men want to know you have his back and can be that steady rock that he requires. He does not need someone that is flaky or indecisive. He will appreciate you more if you do what you say you are going to do when it is needed most. Granted, sometimes things happen that might prevent things from going the way we plan, but a man needs a woman to be consistently honest too.
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