Then you ask your self who am I really you start to think and wonder what did you do wrong. The answer is basically you did not do anything wrong some of these females can not accept a strong man and it breaks us down as a person now I am not saying all females are like this but when can read the signs and see the stalker ways you gotta back away slowly there are to many fish in the sea most of the 2009 breed are tougher to deal with now of days. Its not easy you can find the right one or the wrong one, its your choice I am a person who can offer my opinions and I can not handle my own decisions its good to be honest with yourself.

Do not get into a situation you can not handle or you can not sit down and have a discussion with a female who you love its not worth it, you will find your self losing self respect and everything else. So now I hope you have taken this as a stepping stone. I remember this female very well looking for what she can get out of the man who worked hard to keep her warm and safe but never the less raising kids you think about it, if the kid looks the milk man you might want to consider getting a DNA test, even if you want to put closure on the thought that the female is into something your not sure of then get this DNA when she is at work.

Do not tell her your getting this done, this can cause a big problem. If you can ask the percentage of men who take care of there children ask them if they even thought about this and remember do not ask anything like this in front of wives or girl friends. This is a furniture moving question with some people, might even start an argument.

But the reality of it is if its not yours uncover the female for what she is a name i care not to call a female a name i care not to use but if I were in a bar I would probably call her a name or two and I am not talking about collect call either. Lets put this kind of none sense to an end. Because this not only hurts the child its hurting the parent who put there heart into struggling and getting yelled at all those nights for not doing something correct as a father so make sure you never end up with a issue that can lead to this type of matter. I can recall a young lady who shamed her self with a matter like this and she has never come to the man she accused and said i am sorry because thats the way she was raised do not go for this maybe baby matter but this topic on the table some of us are taking care of seeds and wonder why is this child acting like a park ape in school, or maybe your saying to yourself he looks like Leroy across the street. When you have to ask this type of question in your head its best to put it on the table.