Have you ever wondered why? Yes , that question begins at birth, perhaps even before. Still, that part is unimportant. These are just my thoughts. The question why guides our lives. Though we may not realize it. Although I feel too many people tend to ask why me. Why me? Why am I lonely? Why are my bills so high?  Why am I so sad or angry?   Well, hate to be the one to point this out but these things are far too often self caused. weather by situations we have been put in or by our own attitudes.  The rules say only you can make yourself happy. No one can anger you unless you let them. Poignant and true life isn’t easy. Deal with the past, don’t dwell in it. 

I find it unreal that everyone I know impedes themselves behind the why. Because we tend to take the simplest outlook of all the possibilities.  Why makes us able or unable to act as we believe ourselves to. Do you remember asking why as a child?  Maybe it’s true although in the years that have passed have simply left our memory. As things tend to do. More so as time passes by. I know as children we cry about being forced off a swing. Why did they do that to me? Simple it is one of two things or both. It was done to them, or you allowed it. There are few lessons learned as quickly as who the stronger between two people is and often it is an issue of wills not muscle. 

Perhaps this question seems to be in jest. No, who has not asked why?  The only thing you most want to have an answer to.  An answer to the why standing in front you. If you open yourself up to it the answer is likely in front of you as well. Look in to yourself, read, ask a trusted friend whatever it takes.  Maybe the answer is ” Ask your father. But who am I to know, and why should I?