How can a person change their life for the better? Realize that we are human. One man said a liar is a liar is a liar. A thief is a thief is a thief. How does a person change?

As a man thinks so is he. Why is one man good and another just a sorry character? Why is one woman good and another just sorry? How did they come to be this way?

Have you ever looked at humans? Some smile and some frown. This varies from person to person. Have you ever tried to make a person smile? This takes skill and experience. It also takes understanding human nature.

Each human on Earth was born in a place they did not choose if they were born at all. If they were fortunate enough to be loved and raised properly to become a good adult, they are truly blessed.

We all have problems. Each of us needs food, shelter, clothing and to be loved and understood. We need people who are good to each of us. We do not need to be labeled this or that. What is a sterotype? It is a label humans place on a group of people because of the sex they were born as or something taught and usually has to do with prejudice.

Bad news sells. Pretty soon we find out that life is not like the media portrays it at all.  We were in a large city at a Chess tournament. We watched the news and there was a massive forest fire near our home several hours away. For two days, we did not know if we would have a home because the media would have us believe all was lost. It looked like about 200 miles was burning. When we got back it was smokey and we had to stay out of the area for three days. We had some money so we stayed at a motel in a nearby city. Do you believe this was right of these strangers to make us worry like this? I do not. Sure we have insurance but to start over after many years is hard. Humans get attached to things. Have you ever thought waht would happen if you lost your shelter, and your family and all you had in a short time? This happens here on this Earth to some. We humans do it to each other while G-d looks on.